What I did to overcome insecurities
Carrying the weight of insecurities can be overwhelming, But through intentional steps and leaning on God’s guidance, I found a way to overcome them.
In this post, I’ll share what worked for me and how you can begin your own journey to confidence and freedom.
Pray about it
Starr with a transformative prayer. Ask God to renew your mind and align your thoughts with His truth. Invite Him to replace fear and doubt with faith and confidence. Surrender your worries and insecurities to Him, trusting in His power to bring change. Pray for strength to let go of old patterns and for wisdom to see yourself as He sees you—loved, capable, and chosen.
This kind of prayer not only invites God’s intervention but also helps you refocus on His promises and find peace in His guidance.
Control your attention
When you consistently focus your attention on a specific virtue or idea, it begins to shape your thoughts, attitudes, and actions. This is because what we dwell on in our minds has a powerful influence on who we are and how we behave.
For example, if you intentionally focus on kindness, you’ll start noticing opportunities to be kind in your daily life, and over time, it will become second nature. Similarly, meditating on qualities like gratitude, patience, or courage can gradually mold these traits into your character.
The Bible reinforces this principle in Philippians 4:8, encouraging us to focus on what is true, noble, right, pure, lovely, and admirable. By paying attention to these virtues, they begin to take root in our hearts, leading to a transformation in how we live.
In essence, what you focus on grows, and by giving your attention to positive and godly virtues, you allow them to become an integral part of who you are.
Challenge those negative thoughts
After praying and filling your mind with godly virtues, a spiritual and mental battle often begins. Your old self—the part shaped by past fears, doubts, and worldly influences—will resist the transformation taking place. Negative thoughts, self-doubt, and feelings of inadequacy may surface as your mind starts adjusting to this new, godly way of thinking.
This is where you must actively challenge those negative thoughts. Recognize that these thoughts are not from God but are remnants of old patterns or even attacks meant to discourage you. Combat them with truth by declaring God’s Word over your life. For example, if a thought tells you, “You’re not good enough,” remind yourself of Philippians 4:13: “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”
Spend time with supportive and uplifting people.
Hebrews 10:24-25: “And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds, not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.”
This passage emphasizes the importance of community and mutual encouragement among believers. It calls us to inspire one another to live in love, actively do good, and remain committed to gathering together to strengthen our faith, especially as the return of Christ draws near.
Read Christian books and watch YouTube videos about your identity in Christ and building confidence.
Reading Christian books and watching YouTube videos on these topics can be a step in your spiritual and personal growth. These resources will provide you with insights and encouragement grounded in God’s Word, helping you better understand who you are in Christ and how to walk in the confidence that comes from Him.
conclusions
Recovery may not be an easy journey, but God has given us a Helper. The Spirit of Truth is with you and will remain with you, guiding you every step of the way. He will teach you all things and remind you of God’s promises and truths. Trust in His presence and lean on His guidance.
Until next time, stay encouraged, and God bless!
