Favor: Four Daily Habits to Attract His Blessings in Your Life

”One day of Favor is better than a lifetime of Labor”.
– Mike Murdoch

When it comes to the dynamics of God’s Kingdom, favor is everything. Think about your life for a moment—how often have you seen that the fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, the strongest warrior doesn’t always triumph in battle, the wisest people still experience lack, and the most skilled don’t always rise to fame? This is because success in life is not merely a product of human effort; it is often a result of divine favor.

Favor is the game-changer. It’s what aligns your life with victories you couldn’t achieve on your own. Some call it favor, others refer to it as mercy, lovingkindness, or unfailing love. Even the blessings of a good spouse are described in Scripture as favor.

To me, favor is when you receive what you’re not qualified to get, when you are seated in places where your own merit could never take you.

Consider Joseph, who found favor in the sight of Pharaoh, the king of Egypt. His journey defies human logic—he went from the pit and the prison to the pinnacle of power. The very man who was once a slave had his former master bow the knee as he rode by in royal authority. Only divine favor can orchestrate such a dramatic turn of events!

Then there’s Esther, whose story is a testament to the power of favor. She entered the presence of King Ahasuerus, an act that could have cost her life. But instead of death, she found favor—not just for herself but for her entire nation. What was typically forbidden was granted to her, and her courage became the bridge for a nation’s salvation.

Daniel’s life in a foreign land is yet another testament to favor. He didn’t just win the favor of King Nebuchadnezzar but also found favor with the kings who followed. His influence extended across empires, proving that divine favor knows no boundaries.

The stories of Joseph, Esther, Daniel, and countless others show us one undeniable truth: favor defines lives and transforms destinies. It is the unseen hand of God opening doors that human effort alone could never unlock.

So, how can we position ourselves for such favor? While favor is ultimately God’s gift, there are habits we can cultivate to align ourselves with His grace. Here are four habits that I have observed to be pathways to accessing God’s favor:

Grace to the Humble

There’s something about a humble attitude, it attract unmerited favor from both God and man. Throughout the new testament, we see a consistent pattern: God pours out His grace on the humble but stands firmly against the proud and arrogant.

One story I read vividly illustrates this truth:
A taxi driver in an old, battered car had the misfortune of crashing into a gleaming, luxury Honda owned by a wealthy man. The accident was undoubtedly his fault. As he stepped out of his worn-down vehicle, panic set in.

A quick glance at the damage revealed what he already knew: even if he sold his car, his only means of livelihood, it wouldn’t cover the cost of repairs. Financially struggling as he was, the situation seemed utterly hopeless.

Desperate for mercy, the taxi driver did the unthinkable. He ran to the front of the pristine Honda, laid himself flat on the ground, and cried out, “Please, sir, drive over me. I’m sorry for what I’ve done. Even if I sold myself, my family, and this car, it wouldn’t be enough to pay for the damage. Just drive over me, sir. Please, I beg you!”

The wealthy car owner was stunned. At first, anger consumed him, but the sight of the man sprawled out on the ground, pleading for mercy shifted something in his heart. His fury gave way to amazement, and soon, laughter bubbled up. The scene was so unexpected that it was almost comical.

Still, the taxi driver didn’t move. He remained flat on the ground, humbling himself completely. The rich man, now moved with compassion, walked over and told him to get up. “Go,” he simply said.

The taxi driver, trembling and in disbelief, stood up. That was it? He was free to go? Overwhelmed with gratitude, he profusely thanked the man, got into his dented car, and drove home.

What changed the outcome of this encounter? It wasn’t the taxi driver’s arguments or resources, he had none to offer. It was his humility that softened the heart of the wealthy man. If the taxi driver had responded with anger, excuses, or defensiveness, the story might have ended very differently.

This story is a reminder of Proverbs 3:34: “God resists the proud, but gives grace to the humble.” Similarly, 1 Peter 5:5-6 exhorts us to clothe ourselves with humility, for “God opposes the proud but shows favor to the humble.”

Humility will position us to receive grace not just from God, but often from others as well. It’s in the moments when we come broken, vulnerable, and sincere that God’s love and favor reach out to us.

Always approach the throne of God with a humble heart. When we acknowledge our need for His mercy and grace, His favor rests upon us in ways we could never achieve on our own. And when His favor lifts you to new heights, never forget to acknowledge the grace that made it possible.

Humility opens the door to divine favor, and favor changes everything. Where pride would create barriers, humility invites breakthroughs. So, live under the abiding cloud of His grace, and let it position you for a life of unimaginable blessings.

Divine pleasure

It’s truly amazing what happens when God is pleased with a person. He doesn’t just bless them, He actively undertakes for them, ensuring their success. As Proverbs 16:7 declares, “When a man’s ways please the Lord, He makes even his enemies to be at peace with him.”

This verse reminds us that living a life that pleases God invites His divine favor. Every action we take to honor Him, standing firm in faith, rejecting unbelief, walking in righteousness, obeying His Word and Spirit, forgiving others, serving selflessly, and walking in love—draws us closer to His heart and His blessings.

But you cannot anger the Blesser and still expect to receive a blessing. Scripture is clear that rebellion leads to a dry and desolate life. “The rebellious dwell in a dry land” (Psalm 68:6). For those who choose disobedience, famine and distress follow them.

If you desire to live under the shield of God’s favor, let go of anything in your life that grieves Him. Stubborn disobedience and a hardened heart will only drive away the Spirit of favor. Instead, align your heart with His will, for as Psalm 5:12 promises: “For You, Lord, will bless the righteous; with favor You will surround him as with a shield.”

Choose today to walk in ways that please God. When His favor rests upon you, it will be like a shield, protecting and guiding you through life’s challenges, and opening doors of peace and blessings you could never achieve on your own.

Pursuit of Devine agenda

Favor follows divine purpose, it’s as simple as that. God has not promised to prosper your personal agenda, but when you step into the flow of His plan, He will carry you along, providing everything you need to fulfill His purpose.

The key is to align yourself with what God is already doing. Discover His direction and follow it wholeheartedly. When God sees your unwavering commitment to His priorities, He knows He can trust you with His resources — truth, anointing, finances, wisdom, and more. Then you will become a steward, a Kingdom treasurer, entrusted with the manifold gifts of Heaven to advance His mission on earth.

This is the secret to becoming a channel of favor that never runs dry. God’s blessings flow to those who are impacting His people, doing His purpose, and advancing His Kingdom.

So, what is God doing on earth today?

His agenda has not changed. Jesus came to seek and save the lost and to establish those who are saved within His body through deliberate discipleship and training in the ways of God. Everything we do should positively contribute to these two grand objectives:

1. Reaching the lost
2. Equipping the saved through discipleship

When you align your life with these purposes, you position yourself in the river of divine favor. Let your work, resources, and influence reflect a commitment to the Great Commission. As you do, you’ll not only fulfill your divine calling but also experience the overflowing favor of God in every area of your life.

Diligence

Favor tends to follow the diligent, it’s simply how it works. Those who strive, seek, and persist often find more opportunities than those who sit idle. Scripture makes it clear: “God is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him” (Hebrews 11:6).

The Bible gives us a powerful example through the ant. “You lazy fool, look at the ant. Watch closely; let it teach you a thing or two. Nobody has to tell it what to do. All summer it stores up food; at harvest, it stockpiles provisions.” (Proverbs 6:6–8, MSG).

This paints a vivid picture of discipline and preparation. So, how long will you continue to laze around, doing nothing? A nap here, a day off there, and before you know it, life’s opportunities will pass you by. Laziness leads to lack, but diligence positions you for favor and provision.

Every gift and talent God has entrusted to you is a seed of favor. To fully experience the harvest of His blessings, you must:

1. Discover your God-given gifts.
2. Develop them with diligence.
3. Deploy them with excellence.

Proverbs 22:29 reminds us: “Do you see a man diligent and skillful in his work? He will stand before kings; he will not stand before obscure men.” Skilled workers, those who are dedicated and excellent in their craft, are always in demand. They are admired, respected, and entrusted with greater opportunities.

It’s time for you to rise and take your place before kings, to operate at higher levels of life and influence. The favor of God rests on those who diligently pursue Him and commit to excelling in their work.

Let today be the day you shift from procrastination to purposeful action. As you pour yourself into your God-given assignments, the favor of God will empower you, opening doors you never imagined possible. Pursue Him, hone your skills, and watch as He elevates you to places of honor.

Favor is not just a concept; it is a divine force that can redefine your life. Allow it work for you!

Shalom!