4 Compelling Reasons Why Every Woman Should Protect Her Dignity

About five days ago, I had a conversation with an old friend about children, and the challenges attached to raising them, especially in times like this and surprisingly he said he sincerely wants to have boys, not girls. I asked why and part of his reasons is – girls need more protection and boys don’t get pregnant. 

He will probably sound like an old-school dad but these things are real, and on a day to day life we see girls/women having unexpected pregnancies. It is true that raising a girl has a lot to it and I believe that we can commit to raising women of dignity where the world can recognize them to be different and worth having.

Always know that your dignity in God’s eyes should be the basic dignity in other people’s eyes. Whether you are a girl or a woman this is worth applying in your life.

Strengthens Self-respect

How you carry yourself sends a powerful message to others about how they should treat you. I remember a time in my life when two people I was very close to began speaking to me in a rude and disrespectful way. I couldn’t understand why at first, but after some reflection, I realized that I often behaved childishly around them.

Once I became aware of this, I made a conscious effort to carry myself with more dignity and self-respect. The change was remarkable—both their attitudes and the way they treated me improved significantly. It’s essential for maintain self-respect and stay true to your values. When a woman safeguards her dignity, she reinforces her worth and builds her confidence.

By doing so, she sets clear boundaries and refuses to compromise her principles, no matter the opinions of others or societal pressures. Remember, you can’t disrespect yourself and still expect the world to respect you in return.

Sets you as an example

In 1 Timothy 4:12, Paul advises Timothy saying; “Let no one despise you for your youth, but set the believers an example in speech, in conduct, in love, in faith, in purity.” This verse beautifully aligns with the idea of protecting your dignity.

Older siblings are often encouraged to be positive role models for their younger brothers and sisters. By setting a good example, they inspire and guide the next generation. Similarly, a woman who protects her dignity not only upholds her own self-respect but also becomes a shining example for others to follow.

For me, protecting my dignity means being intentional about how I live my life. There are places you won’t find me, words I won’t use, and people I won’t associate with. These boundaries aren’t about judgment—they’re about staying true to my values and setting a standard for those who look up to me. It’s my way of honoring myself and leaving a legacy of integrity for the younger generation.

Fosters Healthy network

Often times the boundaries you set for yourself create the foundation for mutual respect, trust, and meaningful connections. Take a moment today to evaluate your current network—are the people in your life investing in you in a healthy and uplifting way?

Proverbs 12:26 reminds us, “The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.” This wisdom underscores the importance of surrounding yourself with individuals who align with your values and encourage your growth.

When you carry yourself with honor and self-respect, it reflects in your actions, words, and behavior. Walking, speaking, and living with dignity attracts like-minded people who value and respect the same principles. Over time, your network evolves into one filled with individuals who inspire and uplift you, creating a circle of shared values and mutual growth.

Aid emotional well-being.

Do you know that protecting your dignity can promotes emotional well-being? When a woman respects herself, she creates an environment that is conducive to positive mental and emotional health. By doing so, she can develop healthy relationships and minimize situations that may cause emotional harm or manipulation. Sorry to say this guys, but being promiscuous in your early 20s,30s, 40s etc, makes me believe you have no clue about life and emotional trauma, there is absolutely no excuse for living a promiscuous life. The truth is when you compromise your dignity, you are jeopardizing your personal safety, because there are a lot of sick people in the world that are eager to view you as nothing but a sexual object. They have no respect for your personhood, no respect for your intelligence, no respect for your soul, no respect for your womanhood – and because you lack the necessary thing to respect yourself, you put yourself many times in dangerous positions. No person will violate you if you respect yourself. Create boundaries that will secure your life and emotions.

It is important to note that these reasons apply to people of all genders, as protecting one’s dignity is a universal human right.